Waiting is rarely fun.
Waiting happens all day long: at traffic lights, in checkout lines, waiting for lunch breaks, waiting for phone calls, waiting for dinner to cook, waiting for the bathroom to be free. Wait, wait, wait.
While these may appear to be quite menial things to wait for, waiting in itself is one of those obscurities of life that blossoms with beauty once it is over. Young children wait many weeks for their birthdays to arrive. The countdown begins months before the date and when the fateful day arrives their excitement cannot be contained. The beautiful look of pure elation on their face when they wake up a year older than before, when there’s presents and siblings are required to be perpetually nice to them, that is a picture of why waiting can be so wonderful.
Delayed gratification is something many 21st century adults misunderstand. In a society saturated in instant knowledge and communication, something that takes time is rarely considered special, but on the contrary: inconvenient and worthy of being discarded. Perhaps this is not how it ought to be.
Something that has been waited for, something that has been desired for so long, produces so much more gratification in an individual. Not because it is more elaborate, but indeed, because it has been delayed.
A portion of time can create so much meaning and wonder in a single moment. Waiting. That is beautiful.